Friday, January 8, 2010

Further advice needed from spiritual and atheistic peoples!?

Oh also we are both artistic if that helpsFurther advice needed from spiritual and atheistic peoples!?
Why is an emergent worship service considered ';out there';? Anyway, there are no rules and time limits regarding interacting with other people. Just tell her you had a great time at the movie, and ask if she wants to go to (fill in event here). Most newspapers have a religion section, and in that section is usually a calendar of events. Pick something, see if she agrees to it, and have a good time. Personally, I've found that going to cultural events (museum exhibits, art shows, poetry readings, ethnic celebrations, dance, theatre, concerts and other things) can be a spiritual experience in its own right, although occurring in a secular setting. Maybe something like that might interest her and will provide a bit of neutral ground since it's not (usually) connected to any specific type of spirituality.Further advice needed from spiritual and atheistic peoples!?
I think you should ask her to do something secular first before moving on to asking about something spiritual. I say this because that will give you each some more time to get to know each other. Since people have different beliefs about spiritual matters, you wouldn't want to invite her to something that would not be in line with her personal beliefs or practices. So I think I would just go to a movie or something, to demonstrate to her that you are willing to be her friend even if you end up not agreeing 100% on religion. Then later you can ask about something spiritual, and see if she likes that. If not, I'd just stick with secular things.
How about spending a day going window shopping or browsing the many (artsy places) and galleries there?





Maybe going to a bookstore and getting a cup of your favorite coffee of expresso. And doing lunch or dinner?





Maybe even a Christain bookstore?





Some of these things are probably free of charge. Except the Coffees.





How about a Friday night worship service in a Spirit filled church?





I am sure in New York there is alot more to do then in my city.








Maybe iceskating or somethign like that?


My city is blaahh!
I like just wandering around midtown in the afternoon, check out Macy's and the wooden escalators, a little lunch, maybe take in a movie at the Ziegfeld.
you could just tell her that you don't really know what there is to do (since you just moved) and ask what places she thinks are fun
Bible study works!
USE E-MAIL AND IN THAT NARRATE UR AREA OF INTEREST TO HER....?
Well bro, don't pressure yourself... You are going to lose half of your mind dwelling so hard; trust me man. Just pray that God illuminate your path and guide you. Also, since you all went to the movies last week, just ask her today what is she doing tonight. If she is free then plan to take her out to dinner. I'm drawing the perception you want to become a bit more intimate with this woman. But anyway, just take her out to dinner where you know the food is good. This allows you to converse with her and see what her interest are. Going to the movies conceals this, because your interest is intrigued by the movie. So going out to dinner will be an epic idea sense you will be able to talk with her a lot before the food comes, while the food is there, and after you're done eating. This is an awesome way to find out how well the two of you communicate. The next time you take her out or you all meet up again, just do something simple like walking through a park together. Again to be reiterate, this allows communication. Communication is what you need to establish any type of relationship. It doesn't matter rather you are intimate or just a mere friend; communication can illuminate an awesome relationship.





Email me if you desire some explicit info... Brief me some more about this woman, so I can become savvier with this issue and provide you with relevant info.





God-bless!

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