Christians: I have a delima and need spiritual advice(It's long)?

This is very difficult for me to write but I really need some advice. I am married but a few years ago my husband and I were going through a very difficult time. He had lost his job and I was forced to go to work for the first time after being a SAHM for 2 years. At my new job I was forced to work next to an ex boyfried. He had actually been the love of my life and at the time we dated I truely thought he was the person God had planned for me. Well, as you can probably guess things got wrose between my husband I. We were always fighting and then I would go to work and hear how beautful I was and how letting me go was the stupidest thing he had ever done. Satan got to me. He convinced me that my marriage to my husband was a mistake, that we would have never gotten married if I hadn't gotten pregnant and this is the guy God WANTED me to be with. I believed every word and I had an affair. I am by no means saying ';satan made me do it'; I take full responsibility for what I've done. But here is the problem. It's been years sinse this has happened and my hubby and I are doing great. But I've never told him. Lately this has been bothering me and I feel as if I should tell him, but I KNOW he would never forgive me-he would leave me there's no question in my mind. So I'm scared. I don't know if this is God telling me to tell him even though I have forgiveness or if it's Satan just bringing back my past mistakes because it's the only way to get to me. Do you think I will ever have a Godly sinse of being forgiven or should I tell him. I know now sinse going through this that I could not live my life without him, but if it is God telling me then I know He can get us though it, but if it's Satan telling me we never will. Please helpChristians: I have a delima and need spiritual advice(It's long)?
It's not fair or spritual for me to ease my soul at the expense of others. Haven't I hurt them enough? Sometimes it benifits me more to remember my guilt and use it for a starting place for when I'm tempted to hurt another. After all I did the injustice shouldn't it be my responsibility to deal with the reckage of my past?


If you truely know God then He has forgiven you. To me it sounds like what you may need to do is to use God's love as a way of finding a way to forgive yourself.


lburgau@aol.comChristians: I have a delima and need spiritual advice(It's long)?
first of all calm down


now


1.understand what's Satan- Satan are the vices present in our heart like ego ,avarice,lust ,greed attachment and anger under whose influence we do crimes .


2.u r scared that ur husband will leave u if u tell him but the real question here is do u love him or not and what future is that u want , u must chose 1 and be faithful to the 1 u chose.


if u love ur hus. honestly then don't tell him. NOTE:im not telling u to be unfaithful but the opposite that to love him and respect. if u will tell him u will only hurt him and nothing good will come out of it.


instead think of what u did as past , accept the mistake and say sorry to god (god will forgive u , if u r honest and faithful thereafter onwards) and as i said be a good faithful wife from now on.


consider this as ur new birth , leave the past behind , ur husband is ur present and future (unless of course if u have chosen otherwise) .
If the ex-boyfriend is not part of your life now and things are fine with your husband then you should not tell him. It would only inflict pain on him for no good reason and it may destroy all of the progress you have made.
In all honesty yes the affair was very wrong and i know u must be broken up about it, im sure u regret it.


But as long as it was a one time thing and the ex is outta ur life FOR GOOD it would not be good to tell ur husband. I will tell u that in most other incidents it would be important to tell the truth because the bible tells us 2. But as you can see, some things are just different. The bible was made as a perfect standard to attain, so being humans we are not perfect. The bible is perfect because God wants us to STRIVE for perfection.


Hope this helps and God Bless
The only thing I can tell you to do is pray about it. If you feel you need to tell him then do it. Ask God to give you the words and I'm guessing your husband is a Christian too? Remind him that God has also forgiven you, and just like He forgave your husband when he was saved then although it would be hard for him, he should extend that forgiveness to you. Although God allows divorce if one commits adultery, He doesn't necessarily tell you to divorce. It's a mistake you made and you know full well that you're not going to do it again. Again, just pray about it.
God forgives only when one can forgive himself/herself. The reason you are feeling guilty is because you had once forgotten the goodness of your husband and are reminded once again of who he is which reminds you of what you did. You can't change the past. You can how ever ruin the future with things from your past that today don't matter. If you are a believer in God this is his way of saying you have a lot of thinking to do. A lot of forgiveness within yourself towards yourself. I don't belong to a church, I'm just very spiritual but if you do belong to a church maybe you should go to confession. Don't ruin your future because of past mistakes. That's not what God wants. That may indeed be the Devil?! Listen...if you know you're God you will know what to do...God speed to you:)

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