So I’m twenty years old I’m an attractive guy but I’ve never had a girlfriend because I was waiting for the right one. Now I’ve meet this girl at my church she’s really pretty and nice and decent and religious. I’m religious myself, she’s very sweet she volunteers most of her time to charities and stuff. My mom is friends with her mom, and in some instances her daughter has asked my mom about me. My mom told me she might be interested in me, because she asks about a lot and she gets happy when she talks about me, my sister has also told me this, because she always brings my name into their conversations like “How’s your brother”, “What’s he up to”? and stuff. Since I’ve never had a girlfriend and I want to start a relationship with this girl, I’m starting to imagine us getting married (I’m twenty) and starting a family, finishing college etc. I think she would make the perfect spouse and mother for my future kids. I know most guys shouldn’t think like this but since she is my first real love interest I’m feeling for her fast. I don’t want to sound to clingy or desperate, so how can I get her to date me? I went to her home recently and asked her if she wanted to go out to a family party and she said she had an event that day for church and that she really wanted to go, so I told her that was fine, just to let me know when she was ready. I’ve texted her twice today. The first “It’s a shame we couldn’t hang out this week, let me know when you’re available” the second “here’s a bible verse, I think you will like it” (she’s religious) So my question is am I being to clingy or desperate,? The second how can I get her to date me and keep the romance going?I'm falling for this girl to fast, spiritual advice.?
Start with group activities with friends. Do nothing or go nowhere that your parents would not be happy about. Relate to her on a spiritual level. Do things together to help others. As you do it will become natural for you to be together. Marriage will then just be the next logical step. Make God the centre of your relationship.I'm falling for this girl to fast, spiritual advice.?
Darling, there is no right girl.
There is a right YOU.
Ask her out. You know, like normal people.
Coffee is fine, then start upgrading to finer dining until she gets the picture.
The best way to keep going with anyone is to never lay all your cards out on the table at once. Don't come in full throttle and tire yourself out. Ease into it and try the fancy things later.
That advice holds in most areas in and out of the bedroom.
Sounds like you are already on a roll. Just keep it coming. Pray about it and ask God to help you honor Him through getting to know her better.
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