everytime I think things will get better...they dont...everytime I think I made the right choices, I find out I didnt...and I am always stuck in this miserable screwed up situations........
so what do I do to cheer up and get through the next 40 or so years with half a smile?I need some spiritual advice?
getting stuck in the middle was a personal choice now undo the do-do! Or wait forty years and somebody else may think you are a fossil and take you home!I need some spiritual advice?
Half a smile? Look around you. This is an amazing planet we live on. You have a child, a pet, a parent, some friends, something to love? You are truly in a good place even though there will always be problems. Look to others and see the pain and awful existence of others and then look at your life and be grateful for choices, right or wrong. Be grateful you can use a computer and talk about your problems. Clean the bathroom, you have one! Paying the mortgage or rent, you have a home! God is all around you but I think we are suppose to sort things out the best we can by appreciating what we already have. I am sorry if this seems trite. That is not my intention. Problems are different for everyone but I bet you are a very thoughtful person.
You answered your own question and you don't realize it. Find something that excites you spiritually. You don't have to go to church, you don't have to practice the same religion you grew up with. If you're unsure of just what you believe start researching all sorts of religions.
The thing is, a great deal of the time life sucks, it really does. The only way to get through is to see the big picture, to understand that there is a reason for all of this. Most of us find that big picture through our spirituality. I'm not a Bible thumper, don't go to church but my spirituality gets me through the tough times.
Well you are going to make mistakes in life - we all do that for sure.
Life does not always get better as soon as we want it to.
You need to do a bit of reading on positive thinking to change your negative attitude. Get some books from the library and read about others who have endured the most terrifying events and came out of them to be stronger, happier people.
Life comes to us -';one day at a time'; and that's the way we should live it - don't worry about the next 40 years - just live for today, by helping others, God knows that by volunteering or helping out those less fortunate we can learn a lot about ourselves.
I truly wish I could answer your QUESTion well . For me , I pray and read The Holy Bible , e.g. Psalm 23 , 31 , et.al .
Life is depressing and full of human suffering and seeking out God is the only relief and help I find in this world .
May God bless you with health and happiness ! %26lt;)))%26gt;%26lt;
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Your stuck because that's what you focus on.Write a list of things that ain't working for you, than write a list in the present of how you want it to be, burn the old list focus on the positives change the way you think
pray
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