I know some of you have gone through this before, any spiritual or non spiritual advice you can share?

I'm going through a tough time spiritually and emotionally right now so my thought process maybe slightly skewed so bare with me...





How do you spiritually deal with the fact that someone has used you, lied to you, cheated on you, humiliated and embarrassed you, leaves you, strings you along for a year pretending to be a ';friend'; only to find they have prospered from doing all those things? How do you deal with knowing someone has sowed lies, deceit, betrayal and has reaped a better life because of it? I don't get it. Isn't that contradictory to His word? This girl did everything to tear me down as a human being, ran off with the guy she had been cheating on me with for a year of the 2 years we were together and now has everything...she's got the job, the fiance...While I helped her get through school to get that job and the fiance she has came as a result of her lies and cheating ways. What kind of message should this really be sending me spiritually? Did God say to her, ';It was ok that you treated him like crap and though I know you were wrong, you know you were wrong and he knows we both know you were wrong, eh I'm going to bless you anyway, especially since he's over there in pain.'; Maybe I'm expecting too much. Maybe I was expecting Him to be true to His word, because I could have got revenge but I remembered His word and decided against it. It's hard for me to believe that God doesn't have favorites being in the middle of this mess I'm in.I know some of you have gone through this before, any spiritual or non spiritual advice you can share?
From a spiritual stand point, you have walked in the Lords shoes, he too suffered all these things and more. In the near future You will know what is is to be rejected,,, and all the things u mentioned. Keep the faith, there will be a brighter tomorrow.I know some of you have gone through this before, any spiritual or non spiritual advice you can share?
Remember, God got you out of it. She has poor character and God preventing you from the biggest mistake of your life. You will soon heal and find someone who is of the same faith and character. You may want to get on your knees and thank Him for His mercy.
A Christian's reward is not in this life. The devil gives the sinful people of this world what appears to be rewards in order to cause believers to ask the very questions you are asking at this point in your life. Be strong in the Lord. God bless you.
Life is never fair. To expect fairness is a recipe for always being disappointed. Move on with your life and take control of your future, you're spending too much time still focused on her.
Forgiveness is always the best response.
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gullible.
asskicking is the best way to deal
This is from my experience and my opinion, so take it as you will. I believe that God does not have anything to do with how successful we are in life. I believe that God created us, but after that, it's hands off and we are left to make our own destiny for ourselves. I learned a long time ago that I shouldn't blame God for all the bad things that have happened to me in my life. I shouldn't blame myself either. I needed to learn from my mistakes and life experiences. I needed to understand that life isn't fair and it's not all sunshine and roses.





But, if we choose to make the best of life's hardships, we can become stronger from them. Some people choose to be a victim and claim that the bad things always happen to them and they are sad, miserable people. They are weakened by life experiences and do not live a happy life. I have been in this situation and I learned to get out of that negative way of thinking. I am still learning, but am much better at it now than I was a few years ago.





Keep a good attitude and realize that this relationship was not meant to last forever. Everything changes and as human beings, we can either adapt to changes, or shrivel up and die in them.
Give yourself a few days to vent about it to whoever you want..and then just don't bring it up anymore. She doesn't deserve your attention and I know when I start talking about things in the past it gives life to the situation and only makes me more pissed off about it. Her life isn't as nice as you think it is anyway.
Revenge is definitely not the answer but there is nothing wrong with being angry, hurt and or down about this whole thing. Let the grieving process take place it's not easy to stop loving someone no matter how much they've hurt you. Grieve then allow yourself to move on someone better will come along you will see.





Don't let yourself get caught up with what your ex is doing. It maybe going well now but what goes around comes around.