Spiritual love advice needed.?

Its been over a year since I was last in love. This girl happened to be my first love and we developed a strong love. She ended it by cheating on me for another guy. Anyways, its been a hellish year for me but recently, Ive finally gotten over her and was so happy these last couple of weeks. All of the sudden for no reason, the last few days I have been feeling a great pain inside myself. I realized that I miss her. I dont understand. I had just gotten over her and my life was going great and all of the sudden I feel this pain in my stomach and I realize that its from missing my x-lover. Is it possible that she might be missing me and my senses are picking up on it and becuase of it Im feeling her pain for me?Spiritual love advice needed.?
It's rarely a good idea to go back to a cheater. I think it much more likely that if you haven't dated in over a year, you are just lonely. Maybe it's time to get out and start thinking about new relationships.Spiritual love advice needed.?
Since you have not specified your spiritual perspective I can only offer you advice from mine. First of all I don't think there are any cosmic vibes shifting your direction from this girl. Infidelity is a pretty strong indicator that she was not feeling you too strong a year ago, why that would change suddenly, or along what airwaves you think it would travel I do not know.





If you are from a different background I hope you will have the patience to read on for a moment. If not, it was free advice and it cost you nothing. From a Christian perspective the soul is described in one instance as a home. It speaks of an evil spirit dwelling in the home and making it a mess until it was evicted by Christ. The home was cleaned out and swept up, but the spirit eventually returned and there was no one living there. So, he just moved back in and invited some friends. Together they trashed the place worse than in the first place.





Jesus uses this description to warn people what would happen if they purged their life from sin, but failed to fill it with goodness. The lesson you can learn from this is that you will fill your life with something. Perhaps you were filling your life with this girl. Your happiness was tied to her. Your since of purpose. The infidelity showed you that she was not really good for you, but now that she is gone you have had to wrestle with the emptiness of the home of your soul. Until you fill it with something (like a genuine relationship with God) you will continue to feel the emptiness.





You could try to fill the emptiness with another girl, but ultimately all human beings, even the dearest and most loyal, will fail us and hurt us.
God doesn't approved adultery.





Have you touch her before marriage? If you did then maybe you should read the Bible about a man touching a woman.





If you would have read the Bible before dating, this wouldn't have happen.
wekk if tshe cheated move on . those feelings are of satan he knows your weakness rebuke him in the name of jesus
There can be a bond with people that you have Loved. Spiritually she could have been your soul mate or even a twin flame. Whenever we have sex with someone, they will have a hook in our spirit I have read. We can also Imagine things. Our mind is very powerful and if you did not have closure, then your memory would come back to haunt you and imagination can cause us to feel ill. Usually another guy in the picture will be closure enough. People come into our lived many times for lessons. They help us to see ourselves and they also help us to see what we don't want in out life. My suggestion is continue to get over her and keep moving on with your own life and learn from the lesson that cheating is not something you can tolerate. Don't settle for less than you want in another, even if you have to be alone. Being ok alone with yourself is a good thing. Remember this. There is always another trolley coming down the track. That stomach pain will go away but people usually don't change and would cause you more pain. Trust me I know.


Rev. TomCat
I doubt that, you just are feeling melancholy. It will pass. You will meet someone again and hopefully it will be a love that will endure. Good luck.
this is not about Spiritual love this is about a girl!
You have just put the memory of most of the bad things and feelings and started remembering the way she looked at you, the way she felt, smells and the way she smiles.





Be careful, she did cheat, sorry to be cold here...


She either did not love you or cant control herself.





Either way unless she went to you in sorrow I would forget her and move on. I wish you well...
Since God took a piece of Adam away to create Eve,.. Man feels wholer when he is bonded with a women.





She doesn't know what selfless love is. She thinks it's easy to pick and choose love. Probably no one has loved her as fully as you did. But what does she love in life that she valued over you? What worldly things is she looking for that she holds over you and thinks she can replace your love with someone who fits the image she is after.





Or maybe you loved her for looking into you enough to give you a chance.





What ever it is. I think you slept together and developed a soul tie. This can be cleansed out of you with the help of God and the presence of the Holy Spirit.
I think it's probably just gas.